Tǒngyī lǜ dìng 4 zhǒng chēnghu, rúguǒ shì niánqīng rén, kàn shì xuéshēng, bù fēn nánnǚ, tǒngyī chēnghu “tóngxué,” rúguǒ shì niánqīng nǚxìng, tǒngyī chēnghu “xiǎojiě,” zīshēn (niánzhǎng) nǚxìng zé shì tǒngyī chēnghu “nǚshì,” zhìyú nánxìng, chúle niánqīng xuéshēng zhī wài, dōu chēnghu “xiānshēng.”<\/p>\n
統一律定4種稱呼，如果是年輕人、看似學生，不分男女，統一稱呼「同學」，如果是年輕女性，統一稱呼「小姐」，資深（年長）女性則是統一稱呼「女士」，至於男性，除了年輕學生之外，都稱呼「先生」。<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
So there are now four categories:<\/p>\n
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- young people (regardless of gender) who look like students: tóngxué (a term used to refer to students or one’s classmates)<\/li>\n
- young women: xiǎojiě (miss, Ms.)<\/li>\n
- older women: nǚshì (this one’s tricky; it’s more formal than “ma’am”; more like “madame,” I suppose).<\/li>\n
- men who look older than students: xiānshēng (mister, sir)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
As I remarked above, “nǚshì” is a bit tricky, but not just in terms of translation. It’s quite formal and something people usually would write rather than say. Consider, for example, how one might begin a letter to a stranger “Dear [name]”; but if you were standing in front of that person you would not begin a conversation with them with the same words. <\/p>\n
So, if in doubt, call a Taiwanese woman “xiǎojiě.” But calling a Chinese<\/em> woman “xiaojie” is not a good idea these days (if not used in combination with a surname), though it was fine when I lived in China back in the early 1990s. <\/p>\n
By the way, if you ever need to see if a font face will handle Hanyu Pinyin with tone marks well, “nǚshì” is an excellent test word, as “ǚ” is the combination of letter and tone least likely to be supported.<\/p>\n
Further reading: <\/p>\n
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- Chinese terms of address for single ladies<\/a>. Victor Mair, Language Log, August 6, 2012.<\/li>\n
- “Wǒ hěn shíshàng, zěnme chēnghu wǒ ‘āmā’?”<\/a> (「我很時尚，怎麼稱呼我阿嬤？」). Ziyou Shibao<\/em> (Liberty Times<\/em>), June 16, 2022. <\/li>\n
- https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/NPAMEME\/posts\/1475752322884512<\/a><\/li>\n
- Covert Sexism in Mandarin Chinese<\/a>, by David Moser. Sino-Platonic Papers<\/em> 21. January 1997.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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- “Wǒ hěn shíshàng, zěnme chēnghu wǒ ‘āmā’?”<\/a> (「我很時尚，怎麼稱呼我阿嬤？」). Ziyou Shibao<\/em> (Liberty Times<\/em>), June 16, 2022. <\/li>\n
- Chinese terms of address for single ladies<\/a>. Victor Mair, Language Log, August 6, 2012.<\/li>\n